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Letting Go.
Submitted by: The Bump
Vancouver, B.C. CanadaI am married to the love of my life. We are both on our second marriages, and we have always been a great team!
First I would like to say thank you, thank you, thank you so much to Rhonda Byrne and “The Secret” team. I have listened, read, and watched you for years. I also read “You Will See It When You Believe It” by Wayne Dyer many, many years earlier, so I have always lived a life of believing there is a higher power. I have an amazing life, and of course, as Rhonda says, you may have a bad day, but how you deal with it is what will bring you to where you are meant to be.
I am married to the love of my life, and we are both in our second marriage. We have two boys from his previous marriage, and we have a daughter together as well. All of the kids are grown up now, and we have five grandkids and several furbabies. I am a retired accountant. I started selling travel a few years ago, and now I have my own agency. My husband and I have had several businesses over the years. He is a tech guru and does photography in his spare time. We have always been a great team!
Last year, I was told something that brought me to my knees. My husband had been having an affair for several years. At first, I just did not believe it, but then I was shown messages and texts between the 2 of them. I had always said that he could never lie to my face, and I just found out that was exactly what he had done. I forwarded the messages to him so he knew that I knew about it.
Over the next few months, we talked, we went to therapy, and then I left to go to England for three weeks. I told him that I needed to know the whole story, what he was thinking, and any other secrets he may be hiding from me. He told me that this had happened several years earlier but that he still talked to her and had seen her on and off for years.
I had just listened to “The Greatest Secret” prior to this, so in a desperate attempt to figure out what to do, I listened to it over and over again. I also listened to The Power, The Magic, and The Secret over and over. I kept asking the Universe to help me figure this out.
One day, when I was listening to “The Greatest Secret” for possibly the 20th time, I got to the section on embracing the negative emotions and then letting them go. For some reason, that day, I heard the words, and they spoke to me! I realized that the biggest roadblock was that I kept asking, ‘Why?’ Why had he been with her? Why didn’t he choose me? Then I started crying uncontrollably. I took all the negative emotions, put them into a balloon (metaphorically), and let it float away into the air. It was gone; the horrible betrayal, anger, and sadness were gone!! I felt amazing.
Then, the second revelation came to me. For many years, I was so afraid of losing my husband to another woman and wondering if he was having an affair that I manifested it actually happening. I don’t blame myself for the affair, but I am more careful about what I think about it. I am grateful that he had his affair, as it has brought us closer together and more in love than we had been for years.
Thank you so very much to Rhonda and The Secret team for continuing to bring more information about “The Secret,” and thank you to the Universe for sending it my way. Thank you, thank you, thank you.