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Manifested My Ex Using The Secret.
Submitted by: Jennah
London, United KingdomA happy and blessed lady.
Well, I never thought I’d have my own Secret success story to share, but I guess I now do.
I’d like to thank Rhonda and her team for making me believe again. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Oh, what an amazing year it’s been so far. It started off a little shaky, but thanks to the law of attraction, it’s been my dream year, and I know from now on, life is just going to be extra amazing. I feel so blessed.
It started when I first met my now husband on a dating site a couple of years ago. We hit it off right away, and the connection we had was electric. I’d never fallen so hard and so quickly for someone before. He felt like he was the one.
However, my insecurities got the better of me and before I knew it, he became like my other exes. He did not give me the attention or care that I knew I deserved, and things started rapidly going downhill. My best friend, concerned for my well-being, pleaded with me to stop seeing him, but my lack of self-confidence meant that I struggled to do that. However, he finally told me to delete his number as he never wanted to hear from me again. That hurt me so much that I spent hours just crying and hoping that he’d call and tell me it was a huge mistake. Well, guess what? He didn’t!
Once I hit rock bottom, I then remembered The Secret. I was well aware of it as I had previously used it to manifest lovely jobs and with my health, so I knew it worked well.
I started out by writing a list of all the qualities I wanted in my ideal man. I went into huge amounts of detail and tried describing my feelings, too. For example, I would imagine him calling, and I got so good at feeling it that I could actually feel my heart beat faster when I imagined him calling my phone! I changed his ringtone so I would play that ringtone daily and close my eyes and imagine that it was him that as calling me. I’d imagine I was having late night conversations with him and how I’d feel happy and content as I drifted off to sleep. I’d then imagine his arms around me while I was in the kitchen washing up the dishes. Don’t ask why I imagined this, as I’m not too keen on washing up!!
At first, it was super duper hard because I was so hurt by him. So I decided to make a gratitude list where I thanked him for all the good he had done for me. It was hard to find examples, but I put them down, no matter how small. Soon enough, I began feeling so much better about him, and the anger began to dissolve.
Twice a day, I read my gratitude list and my visualization list, especially as I drifted off to sleep. This helped me stay focused on my dreams and kept my negative thoughts at bay. Whenever negative thoughts came up, and they did come up hundreds of times, I used an affirmation such as, “I love myself, and I am happy and at peace,” and kept repeating it until it took over the negative thoughts.
After only a short while of doing this properly, guess what? He called me. But he didn’t just call me like normal. He told me for the first time that he loved me and that he had really missed me. He apologized for the hurt he had caused me by his dishonesty and explained why he had been so cautious with his feelings because he was frightened of getting hurt just as much as I was. I was so excited that The Secret worked, and my heart just swelled with happiness.
I never thought I’d find my happy ending before implementing The Secret into my life. Now, my relationship has gone from strength to strength, and we got married this month. I am so in love, and the most amazing thing is that I know how much in love with me he is, too.
I believed, and I received, and so can you. Please keep at it, and remember that it’s not so much the words in your visualization that matter; it’s your daily thoughts that you need to make positive, and you must feel how you would feel if you already had your dream come true.
PS Please also remember to let it go. Once you have visualized and affirmed, just let it go and forget about it until your next visualization. Keep your thoughts positive and pure, and you will manifest your desires.
Good luck. Love and Blessings.
Jennah x