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The Universe Gifted Him Back.
Submitted by: like.lola95@gmail.com
Mumbai, IndiaI am the happiest girl and a true believer in The Secret.
First of all, I am very grateful to Rhonda and The Secret team for sharing this gift with us all, and I am also very grateful to the people who share their wonderful stories, which strengthen our beliefs.
Here is how my story goes:
When I was in 10th grade, I met a guy. He noticed me when no one else did. I had a huge inferior complex, and he then became the air beneath my wings. He proposed to me, and we started dating. Those three years were the most wonderful years of my life. I had the most perfect relationship. His parents and my mom knew about this and agreed to it. But then I started getting insecure and got into all kinds of negative thoughts. Not only that, I started having thoughts and fears about what would happen if I lost him. And due to those negative thoughts, I had started controlling his life by putting restrictions on it. I still had no peace within. Due to this situation, we were not able to concentrate on our studies at all and ended up with bad grades.
Misunderstandings and lies became a part of our everyday conversations. And then, my mom revolted because we were on our way to losing focus on our future careers. The situation at home turned out the way I feared they would. I had to break up with him because I had gotten lost. I was nowhere. I was devastated because I had ruined a beautiful relationship.
Those 3 to 4 months after my break up, I was dead inside and literally begged him to come back to me even when the situation at home was getting worse. All he had to say to me at that time was that he hated me and never wanted to see my face.
I always knew about The Secret but never really made the effort to work on it. But suddenly one day I was lazing around and something inside me told me to open up the old cupboard. So I did, and I found The Secret book. I saw The Secret movie and heard the audiobook of The Power. I literally made all the effort I could to get him back.
After a month of no contact, I happened to meet him. Friends still told me that he loved me, but whenever I had any contact with him, he was always rude to me. I was heartbroken and depressed that after all the effort, it was not working.
Then, randomly, one day, I read some stories on The Secret website. Then I understood that even though I had asked the Universe to bring him back to me, and I believed and visualized, I was still obsessing and not letting it go, And letting it go was the most important thing. I had to make him an addition to my happiness, not the source of my happiness. And in order to do that, I had to first get a life for myself!
So, I started doing things to change my life and make myself happy. I became responsible for my own happiness and did not depend on him for that or anything else. I did miss him but had lost all hope of him returning back to me and so I had also stopped practicing and visualizing about him. I only used to practice gratitude for my present life. I never used to resist our beautiful memories, but I used to smile at them and then just let them go. I started concentrating on my work and career even though I was still broken from the inside. I never really paid attention to that broken feeling anymore because my work gave me a new life. 8 months after our break up, he messaged me saying that he still loved me and that we should sort things out and get back together because of the connection we both had; he could not find that with anyone else. After reading that text, I just started crying, and I was speechless. I did not know how to thank the Universe for such a wonderful gift. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!
Now, with time, I know I will be writing more happy stories about us here.
Thank you so much to everyone for reading my story. Thank you so very much to Rhonda and the Universe. Thank you, thank you, thank you! The law of attraction really rocks!